When are we allowed to be old Hamer ? Is it when we feel like it ? or is it when our kids say we are ? or is it when we get sick and feel it real good ? I sometimes think IM having some of the best of times now , when my dad (may he rest in peace) was 47 ,I was 22 , you bet'cha I knew he was older then me but he was my parent and they are always older then we are. I look in the mirror and I see the crows feet and the gray and white hairs , I know what it's like when my lower back is out ,I should more then likely act my age , but then again IM not very sure how I should act at times ? Young and or old , except for maybe 1 to 10 , most folks get treated the same from me , I don't feel that IM older then them , I just try and treat them as equals , if I get any respect in return ? I just figure I earned it . Peace