We all have excuses myself included. I did you a hint or trail of crumbs.
I am busy too. Trust me I could go on and on about my rotator cuff, bicep, need for double knee replacment, diabetes, chronic insomnia, dad's cancer, mom's heart surgery, 2 of my 3 sons not being able to find work fresh out of college and moving back home and on and on!
Ask the right question and use a little bit of google.
Sometimes you need to pick the right forum on the right sight to find your answer!
I spent 5 minutes looking for you in between watching some anime waiting for my food to heat up in the oven and my wine to chill in the fridge!
Everyone wants to hit the easy button but life is not easy at all. Your not looking at a Cobra 148GTL and this is not the 1990's where it is all been done before and written about in a magazine or mini-book you can purchase.
Sorry your mom is ill must be nice to have her around in her 90's I doubt I will get that much time with my partents that in thei 70's! Cherish every minute!
Again start here not the same but might be close enough to get you started. https://www.wwpdx.com/ForumWWPDX/viewtopic.php?
f=132&t=16850&sid=5f849206a022e5c3d8ecbde928d1e6d8#unread