back in February of 2012 (this year) i sold an item for $89.99 at the same time the buyer also purchased another item from another seller. He received the item and left the other seller feedback etc.. i tracked the item and it sat at there local post office for 2 weeks (attempt to deliver) i didn't send it with sign confirmation about a month later the item came back. i checked the inside of the box and it was never opened. i had sent the buyer messages through eBay, through there sign up email via eBay. i had even called. up till now it's been a long time and i had given up trying to contact this eBay buyer (hasn't had any more activity since feb 2012). I feel pretty bad that i have the money and the item and no response. Maybe this person died? moved? kicked out of qth? It doesn't make sense. The $89.99 money is just sitting in PayPal, I'm not sure if i should just issue a refund or what?