I've been fortunite in these regaurds so far, that's not to say my wife and I haven't had our ugly moments, but we've never even entertained the thought of separation or divorce.....yet......:blink:
I've had several friends that are going through the same shit 74in, and I know the pain they went through.
One such friend got so disgusted with how his EX pissed away all the support money he sent for his two sons that he came up with a pretty cool plan that worked out for both him and his two sons.
After making all the arrangements and clearing up any loose ends here in the states, he up and moved to the British Virgin Islands, only three of us knew where he went. As per his plan, once his sons contacted one of us, we gave them a cell phone number for them to call their father, when it was all said and done the two boys got one way tickets to where dad was hiding out, they moved down there with him, and they all stayed there until the boys were old enough to care for themselves. the EX remarried an outlaw biker, who ended up with life in prison, and the EX died from an over dose. Dad and his two boys are back in the states living their life.....
Things like this shouldn't have to happen if the courts didn't give so damn much priviledge to the mother, I know there are plenty of dead beat dads out there, but there's just as many dead beat moms that railroad their ex husbands with the blessings of family court, and do it at the expense of the children. The system sucks and needs help, but nobody knows how to fix it....
I see it as a form of reverse discrimination toward men because the system works on the principal that a man can not raise a child as well as a woman, and does it with full prejustice toward men.....
Lawyers are not always the answer because it's the lawyers that created this system, and they designed it to create as many problems as possible between the husband and wife so they stand to profit as much as possible when they are called in to resolve the disputes....
Unforunitly there are times when you have no choice but to enlist the help of one of these land sharks, but they are usually the only ones that come out ahead......
