You should not even pretend to know me. Neither of you. Pretend to understand what you want, but I merely find it fascinating how many people whine about being excluded from something they know nothing about. Although I should say more of an amateur interest in psychology. My real background is biased more towards engineering.
Truth be told I couldn't give a crap less what either of you think about me. Yes, that's right, I said it.
Think about this for a moment. If I had wanted the section to be private initially, it would have been. It's not hard to do. The fact I didn't hide it should be proof enough it was there to cause speculation, and ruffle the more sensitive feathers in the group. Or you could drive yourself up the wall thinking that I do have a VIP section set aside for private discussions with people I actually like, not including either of you. You'd be wrong, but believe what you want sir, in fact, whatever is going to make you go pout: believe that.