When my wife and I first met we both were recently divorced and had children. We had a lot of expenses as a result of the divorces, and had little money. We also didn’t want to introduce our children straight away to our relationship.
As a result of our circumstances, we found a way to spend time together by going to parks, and other public places. Sometimes we would park our car, break out a portable DVD player, and have our “date” right there. No hanky-panky, just spending clean time together watching a movie and having a coca-cola.
On five separate occasions at five separate public locations we faced flashing blue lights and searches of our person, vehicle and belongings. The latest we were ever out was 8pm or so, not what I would consider late. It mattered not that other people were present and at the parks on all except one occasion, never saw them bothered...only us.
I was in my late 30s at the time and my wife about 40, both on active duty and both senior enlisted in the military, nicely dressed in a nice car...and we were being pulled out, questioned, searched, and treated like criminals. We even had the interior door panels ripped off the car once. No alcohol, no drugs, no history of any criminal behavior whatsoever. I’ve never had anything beyond a speeding ticket, my wife has never even had that.
Anyway, I don’t harbor any ill will towards the police, and even have a badge proudly displayed on my mantle from some law enforcement duty I was involved in on active duty. I know it can be tough.
But, I will always be reminded that you can be targeted when doing nothing wrong, and that’s because though most are good, there are also bad apples in every bunch.
The above Facebook post is one side of the story, but as far as I am concerned completely believable.