Start with some logical assessments of his hobby. Is he a tech or a general/advanced? What kind of antennas do you see at his place?
If he is a technician and only has small antennas, I would assume he doesn't even know you are on the air. Assume you are not interfering with him and call it a day. If he is a general or advanced and has a yard full of antennas, theres a good chance he has something with a waterfall display and sees every signal that comes out of your radio.
If he does do HF, why not go introduce yourself? There is a decent chance that he can tell you if you are transmitting out of band or not, and if so, may even be able to help resolve the issue. Not all hams are stuck up CB haters. Some are, but not all. I like to hope that most would rather help someone solve an interference problem.
If you are emitting a signal where it shouldn't be, adding a filter to stop it from getting out doesn't stop your radio from producing it. Its still wasted power and added heat in your finals.