sorry to hear this but I've been hearing this stuff for 20 years now , good your trying to work with your neighbor. Cordless phone doesn't help you much but it could be concedered distrubing the peace if let go and bad enough and they could cause unneeded trouble for you , there are many many things you can do and even then ,there are no garrenties. Antron 99 very low is not going to help anyone on the 11 meter band (higher can help but not always) , your also using run of the mill coax , first off , I would go with 9913 , or LMR , on antrons , I've seen that coax clean up the signal big time over the years on those antenna's !! Grounding helps but I've seen where to much of that can make matters worse as well , How clean is your little Iitalian amp ? If the radios are clipped , put them back together , are you using a D-104 ? turn it down ! you can also move the location of your antenna (if possible) but from reading your story , I would change the coax to 9913 , and then i would say you have a damned good chance of getting rid of the bleed , not only that , having the best of feedlines to your antenna is surely a plus in all departments anyway. It's a pain in the ass I know Nightrider , but it is always best to keep the peace with are neighbors to a degree. Good luck to you dude , IM on your side and I've been there and done that too many times to count over the years , truly the part I would like to forget about completely. Get good coax.