I would put the experiment the other way around. Everyone seems so obsessed with the transmitting station and forget their ears...
Put the 17dBi antenna up, and then ask the other station to lower his power until they just cannot be heard. Then replace your antenna with the 18dBi gain antenna. Can you hear me now? I think so...not only will the noise go lower, but signal will also go up. you'd need to look at the other factors to quantify that. I think for the same reason, the quad is a good choice, but also agree to stay within practicle range. That is a big antenna and too unweildy for my tastes...I'd be quite happy with a 4- or 5-element quad. If I wanted more, I'd look at something else