Buy a few acres of land next to more empty acres of land on a hill.
No neighbors make good neighbors.
Well it worked for me.
A. I attest, a few acres of land next to more empty acres of land on a hill works the best!
B. Install a quarter wave wire ground plane antenna in the tree. Same basic idea as this video shows. You can make it just out of wire for more stealth:
C. If you still have trouble with the HOA, see answer "A"