You are right. It is a problem fueled by a bad attitude however the bad attitude is with the wide operator that parks close to an on-going QSO and does not give a damn about QRMing it. Heard it many times and experienced it many times as well. Remember something, I AM one of the operators that likes to have a wider than normal audio bandwidth but on AM mainly but I do not encroach on other stations because I know how wide my station is and I DO give a damn about QRMing someone. As for the laziness aspect, I fail to even comprehend that one. There is no effort in buying a piece of equipment and plugging it in. That is about all that is required to enhance most radios. W2IHY has everything you need for virtually plug and play. No effort (or knowledge) required.