Every time a thread is locked or some form of punitive action is taken against a member for something that we don't feel is in the best interest of the site, we always get a group of people that want to be internet assholes via PM and question everything that is done. They hide behind PMs and emails and talk shit, but they would never do so in the public forum. If we kick someone off the site, everyone feels that they are entitled to explanation, even if the reason they were booted was for something that happened in private.
We try to do something nice and we still take shit for it.
I've had enough.
Voicing a concern about an issue in public and having a regular discussion is fine, but if you don't like the way the site is run don't hide behind rude PM's and talk shit.
Also concerning PM's: We don't go into anybody's private inbox and snoop. However, once you send an email, message, or letter via USPS to someone else, you no longer have any say or control over what they do with it. That's why you should consider your words before writing them. If you want to send disparaging PMs to another member, don't be surprised if your words end up biting you in the ass.
We try to do something nice and we still take shit for it.
I've had enough.
Voicing a concern about an issue in public and having a regular discussion is fine, but if you don't like the way the site is run don't hide behind rude PM's and talk shit.
Also concerning PM's: We don't go into anybody's private inbox and snoop. However, once you send an email, message, or letter via USPS to someone else, you no longer have any say or control over what they do with it. That's why you should consider your words before writing them. If you want to send disparaging PMs to another member, don't be surprised if your words end up biting you in the ass.