If you are gong to use a ground plane kit you don't normally need to worry about isolating the mast or choking the feed line. Most ground planes do a very good job of those two things. If you have a ground plane, I wouldn't bother with either of those unless you had a problem.
When it comes to isolating the antenna from the mast, you can get a solid 2 foot fiberglass rod between the mast and the antenna. What most people call a balun for this purpose isn't actually a balun. What a balun does is take an unbalanced source and force it into balance. *Some* baluns provide isolation as well, or resist/prevent unwanted currents from flowing on the outside of the coax. Not all baluns, however, do this.
Something else that will resist the flow of unwanted currents on the outside of the coaxial feedline is called a choke. Some people call them "ugly baluns". A specific number of turns on a form of a certain size diameter does an excellent job at preventing said currents from flowing. The diameter and number of turns are very specific, more "just is case" is not better, and can actually lead to problems of their own. Generally though, when someone refers to a "balun" when referring to a vertical antenna, what they actually mean is "choke", and generally they don't even know it.
When it comes to grounding an isolated antenna, you can use a polyphaser, or other lightening arrestor that attaches inline with the coax and has a terminal to attach directly to a ground rod. The purpose of such devices it to prevent a static charge from building up on the antenna, and thus help minimize that chance of lightening strikes. It is not full proof, but then neither is grounding the antenna directly to the tower. In either case, if you take a direct hit, or even near hit, your antenna will be lost.
It should be said, when it comes to radio systems, there is more than one ground type in play. Each type of ground has its own requirements and idiosyncrasies. An RF ground for an elevated antenna, for example, doesn't act anything like how most people think a ground system acts. Not even close. In a bad situation, the mast/tower section could actually radiate, affecting various aspects, not the least of which include how the antenna system radiates, how much noise is picked up, how it appears to be tuned, ect. Further, a lightening ground would do better with a single very deep ground rod, while and RF ground would actually work better with more shorter ground rods spread out over an area in a fan configuration...
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