First of a packrat; no one is picking on you.
Least of all - me.
Captain K; lemme start this off.
Perhaps you can fill in what I leave out.
Lightning isn't attracted to antennas. Not necessarily. Lightning is attracted to the strongest ground field that it senses; the path of least resistance. A ground field is an area - a patch of ground - perhaps less than a 1/8 to 1/4 mile wide where the the opposite charge of the Earth actually becomes concentrated. You will know if you are in a ground field. The hairs on your arms, back, and head will begin to stand on end. Literally. That is really the only warning you get; a strike is imminent. If you have ever been in/near a lightning storm, you will know that you are in a ground field when this happens. Ground fields are also random events; they can shift from one spot to another quickly - without lightning even being discharged. Sometimes you don't even notice the hair rising up before a strike happens too.
Was in Elgin, NE spotting severe storms (volunteer for the NWS eSpotter program) when a lightning bolt crashed down less than 5 yards from my vehicle. Had the best front row seat view - if you can imagine that. I had a 10m antenna, a 2m antenna, and a cell phone antenna on my vehicle at the time too. Why wasn't I struck? Because I was not in the ground field. I was the tallest object for 1/2 mile - in any direction. But it struck the ground instead. Close; but no cigar.
Not saying an antenna cannot become a lightning path. Sure they can. So long as your house is in a ground field - absolutely. So, let's say that you have an antenna up on the roof and there is a ground field present. The hairs on the back of your neck and arms are beginning to stand right up. All of a sudden >CRASH<; your station is hit by lightning. Fortunately, you were in the other room eating Cheetos at that moment. Unfortunately, you walk into the radio room and everything that was hooked up to the antenna is smoldering. Toasted to a delicate crunch, just like your Cheetos. Could this have been avoided? Yes and no. Had the lightning had a low resistance path OUTSIDE the building with a ground system that was properly prepared, you might have been able to salvage most (if not all) of your gear. Perhaps even avoid the fire that happened on the roof when the ungrounded antenna became the main path of the lighting too.
Captain K; over to you . . .