The first place I would normally send you for a soft start module is Harbach Electronics.
Just one problem. His basement flooded and wiped out his business operations. Says he'll be back, but doesn't say when.
Even a half-second delay helps a lot. Remember that the longer the delay, the bigger the limit resistor has to be. It can get only so hot in a half second. But the longer the delay, the bigger it will have to be.
We have used a few from chinabay, but that's a crap shoot. I'll see if I can come up with a reliable alternative.
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