Hmmm. Glad you went with a 80B and Icom 7300. As for all the whining about the 811A tubes, yeah they are fragile for carrier modes, and Toll Free is right they will happily produce the power you demand of them whilst burning a hole in the anode (thin, yes).
Only thing I'd like to add is, 811A tubes are not a deal breaker, especially if you use SSB. AM mode maybe tough on them, but even if you burn a hole in the Anode they still usually work fine. I know that isn't the way you're supposed to do it, LOL, but it does happen, has happened to myself and countless others. Mystified when you take the cover off your amp to clean the fan or something and the tubes and notice that at least one of them has a hole burned in the Anode.
For the AL-811H version (the only good version for 10/11M) no matter if Chinese or other 811A tubes, A safe bet (IMO) would be:
SSB no more than 500 Watts PEP output
AM no more than 150 Watts Carrier Power, no more than 500 PEP modulated.
I did a lot of FT8 (straight up carrier mode) with my AL-811H for about 3 years, maybe 4 years, up to 450W carrier power and yeah I might have dulled the shine or put a tiny hole in a Anode at some point, not instantly, but the output power remains the same, then and now. If a tube goes bad and flashes or shorts I'll just repair the damn amp. I run it hard and I know it, but I also know how to repair it. If you don't then don't run it hard!