I'm not going to recommend any specific 'starter' radio. It really depends on what you can afford and what you expect to do with it. In general, I also wouldn't recommend an HT as that 'starter' radio. Why? Cuz they are very limiting, and in some cases, very confusing about programming. (The Wouxun HT is one of those 'confusing' ones, I would definitely recommend the computer programming cable and program. And I like mine.)
Here are a few suggestions though. Whatever you select, it should have a 'PL' tone capability! That used to be an 'option', but it's a requirement now that there are so may repeaters. I would also recommend a 'dual' band VHF/UHF radio. UHF repeaters are much more common than they used to be, and if there are none in your area, who says you won't go where there may be a few around? With a few qualifications (those PL tones for instance) the used market is one to take a look at. 'New' is nice, but not always the 'best' deal around.
Nothing here that already hasn't been said, probably, and certainly not 'revelations', just some things that you should consider. You don't have to get it all right now, and I know of very few people who only have/had one radio. The absolute best thing I can think of is to get your hands on something before you buy it. Try it out, see how you think it might 'do' you. That's also the hardest thing to do! Oh well...
- 'Doc