The way I see it, if someone really wants to find you....they will.....
With that said, I'm just getting back into Amateur radio after a 15+ year absents, and just recieved the first of two radios ordered...(a Yaesu VX-170 HT), so at this moment I do not belong to any clubs. However, when I was active I did belong to one of the area repeater clubs known as SPARC, Shore Points Amateur Radio Club, located in the Atlantic City (NJ) area.
Depending on how much I get back into amateur radio this time around will determine wether or not I join it again and maintain membership.....