Hmmm...
Ok, keep us posted on your progress...
I see you tried the SWR approach so - "OK we now know" let's get back to the fun at hand and make this work...
Barrel connectors can get finicky - they tend to loosen due to their structure. They are stiff, hard-shaft and unable to bend or absorb much vibration without some type of help.
Mounting the two devices in the same plane, and sharing the same bracket are pretty much the best option when it comes to "bolting" and barrel-ing the system together. It's a lot like hardline - low-loss and can withstand a lot - but requires a lot of effort in alignments and construction to make the line work and stay put for any type of service life.
Coax does better in mobile setups. If for any reason - the amount of vibration it has to withstand.
Because of it's flexibility and ability to withstand flexing bending and their stress', it can stay in position without any sort of help once they're tightened. You can add a sealant but that is your choice - if you're if a job positions' like a slip seater or only wanted it for seasonal uses, then something quick, flexible and easy to adjust and or remove - like this approach is the best. Sealant can only work if you want a more permanent or weatherproof bond. Unless you have any sort of outdoor exposed connections that require sealing (like a bumper or lip-mount or "twin-Trucker" dual co-phasing or other types of exterior harness applications) it may be more of a hassle than it's worth to use. Easy assemble and disassemble takes precedence - you never know what you may encounter while driving or having to maintain your vehicle.
Simple setups work far better and are easier to maintain than a sealed up and unable to be removed setup that got whacked and is now cracked and leaking and SWR is beginning to climb...
Barrels, well, no - they are more tubular solid shaft, like hardline. So any torque placed on either side can cause the connection to break loose and you get a loose connector problem. So - we did do it if - Only for checking SWR issues and no because you'd need more of a bolted down - spaced right and properly seated permanent mount solutions do they work
So Barrel connectors - if they can be avoided for those short plug in runs - are out for long term solutions.
Barrel connectors are better for only for checking SWR without amp - to attach the Antenna to radio more direct - we will just have to use the Coax jumpers to get your mobile setup working and longer lasting.