The publisher niftyaccessories has that line of booklets you’ve seen which condense op-instructions for HAM radio models.
Has several other more general purpose booklets.
Which may serve your purpose.
Inexpensive, and, as no one has too many books on their shelves in this age, worth the small expense given the nature of your question.
Disputation (is far more friendly) if we disagree about a source versus the other man’s statement.
How to Think, be it on operating a Yaesu XYZ or with vocabulary is worth more than button/dial description and a list of operator terms.
The DX Manual is where I’d start.
Dig thru the offerings of other libraries. History, is always context.
Once edumacated, be confident in use.
Stay that course and others will adapt to it.
Me? I’d be looking to historical accounts and re-vivification of antique or archaic terms if I found them useful. The hobby aspect of Radio is emotional. It’s reality is far broader and deeper.
Words are themselves shorthand. Avoidance of stock phrases is (should be) a given. Clarity is work. (Spirit). Yesterday isn’t today
Handle on vocabulary isn’t formulaic (past broad guidelines). Make yourself a list of guidelines. Op parameters. Logic, is that which stays between the guiding lines (which themselves may not be parallel).
Word by word isn’t the thing. The framing of a doorway is at stake.
Exchange of numerical indicators is simply the doorbell.
It’s in opening the door that radio is near-miraculous.
(Where language reaches highest expression is still circa 1620. KJV, or The Bard. Exchanges on radio may be vocalized dits or dashes, but
much else is presumed. Work that presumption).
If it is that reality comes down to but Sound & Light, then Radio is concerned with using the former to convey the latter.
The pairing is a great responsibility. Which I believe your question asks.
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