Preconceived notions don't help.
On the side of both parties.
Sometimes it's nothing more than the Cool Hand Luke syndrome. "What we have here, is failure to . . ."
IMHO this is one of the things that, over time, has always destroyed radio or people
getting into radio. The problem is we have 3 types of operators, a bunch of mindlessly pious and judgemental hams, some excuse making cbers that make excuses about not getting licensed because they don't like some of the pious hams (or they start thinking that they're all that way) and then theres the rest of us, the people that just want to work/play radio and get enjoyment out of that and cast all the other crap aside. The only upshot with the drop in the # of stations on both services is as time goes by, more of the hard-core guys end up being in the third group.