not all hams are like that. sure there are a holes in both hobbies. i enjoy radio what ever i got hooked up at the time. there is enough hate in the world.
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I had the same experience with the VFW, American Legion no problem. I dislike it when people paint a broad stroke across a large segment of society that stands off the side of general population because they have a skill or interest that is not mainstream. Hot rod cars, radio groups, photography, radio controlled aircraft all are cliquish. If you enter a contest for photography and you do not belong to their club you won't even place or get an honorable mention. I entered a photo that I thought was better than anything they had and nothing. The photo was painstakingly composed and the subject matter fantastic. It was a young lady in a yoga pose fully clothed with the sunrise looking like a halo around her head. Everybody that saw it wanted a copy. So what was the problem? All of the.photos had been prejudged at a club meeting the week before the contest, they knew who was in the club and they were the judges.Don’t broad-brush all the older folks. There’s always a few of us younger brains attached to old bodies. Don’t turn away, seek them out and try to increase your generation within the club. My experience with the VFW typifies the attitude you’re talking about. For the most part, young Vietnam vets back in the 70’s were not welcomed into their “old man’s drinking club”. Most of us learned from that experience, and things changed over time. Now we are the old farts, and I’ll be dammed if I can find any of us treating the younger vets in the same offish way. At least at the VFW’s in our area, the drinking aspect has also been largely averted and replaced with family activities, wives and children. One note about women, they’re usually at the forefront of making everyone feel welcome. IMO, clubs need more of them to be involved.
I'll give you the best summation of this CB vs Ham radios I can. If you were an asshole before you got your ticket, you are now the same asshole with better equipment.
I don't usually post up here, but this situation has put my shorts in a bunch.
What i'm about to describe has happened to four different individuals, in four different locales, all this year.
One of these people is me.
All four of us experienced the exact same thing.
I will use my own experience, but know that it is the same experience of the other three people.
I have been getting ready to get re-licensed soon, and decided to try going to a local ham meeting in order to get to know how things work as well as the people there.
I am on the younger side of the radio hobby (mid 40's), and am no slouch when it comes to talking radio.
i also happen to be a very friendly and personable person (as are the others who experienced this).
What i experienced in this ham meeting almost made me reconsider getting re-licensed.
It seemed as if every ham over 50 was not only uninterested in talking to me about anything, but made it clear that i was eavesdropping on their private conversation and wasn't welcome.
It's not like im some spring chicken CBer with a mohawk and B.O. I look and sound very similar to everyone that was at the meeting.
I ended up talking with two of the younger guys there who were about my age if not a bit younger.
they were there to prep for getting their license because they were into hiking and camping.
they weren't really that interested in the radio part yet, but wanted to be.
Upon bringing up how the older guys acted towards me, they nodded and said they had been snubbed also.
It was like there were two groups in that meeting. one full of old guys who have known each other for many years, and us younger guys just trying to make conversation with whoever was around.
This kind of attitude was the exact reason i let my license expire 30 years ago! all i got was snobbery when i tried to talk to the older hams. WTF guys???
As i said, this is basically the same experience that the three others i know had. all this year.
I really thought it might be different now that i've grown up, but nope, same old jerks, just different names.
my questions to you older hams are:
Are you aware that you come across this way?
Do you act like this in non-ham social engagements?
Do you ever bring this subject up in meetings?
before anyone answers that it's just normal age difference, two of the people that this happened to are 60+ years old.
to us, it seems like you just want to hang out with the people you already know, and have forgotten that ham radio is about meeting new people and talking to them.
I'm not looking for consolation here, i am just hoping that a few of you are willing to look inside yourselves and ask if you might be part of the reason your ham clubs suck.
LC
Read or experienced? We have our complete bastiches but they're easily ignored.I’ve read so much negativity about hams.
All the rules? Or several specifically? Part 97 basically states " stay within the lines, don't be an ass, assist or give way in emergencies, and don't abuse the privilege".but I’m not sure I like the idea of all the rules.
Let me give some examples of what HAMS are:I bought a baofeng uv82 last year. I got into a tech licensing class earlier this year but I wasn’t able to attend due to some issues that popped up. Today I started taking some practice tests just to see what to expect. But honestly I’m on the fence about it when I’ve read so much negativity about hams. I’m 32 and an experienced CBer but I’m not sure I like the idea of all the rules. That’s just me though.